15 Things Men Who Have Success With Women Do Differently

It’s to try the same thing over and over again and expect a different result.

You wrote the same thing as a single sentence before. This can be improved by wrapping it into a multiline, so that it is easier to spot and fix.

Because some men live by this credo, at least when it comes to women, dating and relationships. They make the same mistakes over and over again, and expect different results.

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If you know these 15 things, you are going to be a lot happier with your life and, no matter what your situation is, you’re going to be able to find the answers you need to handle it.

The 15 Things You Need to Do to Have Success with Women

Imagine it’s your home.

On the way to a movie theater, you can hear the sound of a heavy engine coming from behind you.

Then you’re in one of those dreams.

You start to wonder if you will ever be able to escape this. You are so weak that you can’t even lift your hands. Your fingers are so numb that you can’t even press them against her. You just have to look at her and you can see how her eyes are closed.

How come I am here and not in the other timeline?
When you’re looking at the evidence the only conclusion that makes sense is that what happened at the exact moment of the initial impact was somehow different.

As a man, I don’t do anything differently than I do with any other woman.

1. They Believe in Themselves

Your mind is the master of your future. The way you think determines the future you have. If you keep having the right kind of thoughts, your mind will keep telling you the right things and you will eventually have the right life.

Some men are not comfortable in their natural state. They want to grow their hair long, have a beard or go bald. Then they have to hide the change of their appearance.

If you’re short then you’ll struggle to get a job.

I mean, as long as they were there, that’s fine.

I meet so many women who have been through such pain and they are willing to help all their friends and to be the best for their friends’ happiness.

It is very important to have an awareness of your thoughts and how you think. If you are happy and positive, it is an attraction magnet for the opposite sex.

2. They Take Action Every Day

 We went back to school and I got my first kiss of the day from a cute 12 year old boy.

For example, guys take action every day. They might read a book on day one, approach three girls on day two and watch a YouTube video on day three. No matter what it is, they do something.
So, that means that the definition of being a man who is successful with women does not require doing something on a daily basis.

Good. You probably will not find the woman of your dreams after the first approach. But, if you don’t have an agenda and are genuinely interested, the chances are good you will have a new friendship or even a relationship, with a woman who is in a similar situation as you.

3. They Are Willing to Fail

I get a lot of emails from guys who ask me for advice and one of the most common questions guys ask is how they can avoid getting rejected. The truth is that getting rejected sucks and it’s hard for you as the guy to get over it. I’ve been rejected plenty of times and I know how much it hurts. I’ve been rejected for pretty much any reason, but I’ve noticed that guys who get rejected usually do the following.

The answer: I believe that you can’t become more feminine for the sake of getting laid. That’s not how it works. You have to be feminine in order to find a good man, and if you aren’t feminine, no man will ever like you.

Yeah, I know. I’m not saying to not try again, I’m just saying that I think you should do it through the “normal” channels.

What really matters is that your failure to learn will lead to you repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

4. They Want to Learn

I’m not sure because I’m not certain that the time or effort will be worth it.

Reading books and attending coaching sessions are useful but after reading a million e-books and attending many coaching sessions, you will still have no idea about your career.

A man must be determined to learn from experience in order to learn from his mistakes and achieve success.

You keep learning and improving from every experience. You analyze the experience to learn what you can do better next time. You never stop trying to improve.

5. They Love Women

There’s one thing I hate about the seduction community and many self-improvement sites for men: they always look for “silver bullets”.

Silver bullets are quick fixes, tricks, advice, or techniques that are supposed to solve all of a man’s problems, when in reality, they’re superficial solutions that only make him feel good about himself for a while.

Oh god, I’m gonna get arrested from that guy
He’s very close to me.
He’s very close to me.

This is why I don’t understand why so many men hate women. This also means that it is impossible for them to ever really understand women. They will never fully understand women, as men do not fully understand each other.

You have to think of the long run, guys. You can’t pick up at random a woman who’s a bigot. If you get a woman who hates you, she’ll eventually hate you. As a matter of fact, you’re better off spending your time and energy in the company of a woman you actually like.

Love men and you will be hated by men.

What if you hate women because you don’t know how to love them? You might need to learn how to respect them as humans, as fellow humans.

6. They Listen to Women

The difference between men and women is that women pay attention.

I have to tell you that you get the second date if you want it… you are interested in the woman.

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You’re being ignored and women are complaining that men don’t listen to them. Do you want to set yourself apart from your competitors? It’s simple. Just listen.

By listening to women, a man takes into consideration their opinion and listens to them.

7. They Know How to Communicate With Women

It is not hard. I have had my life and am happy.
That’s it.

In case you haven’t already, we all have to deal with rejection. Sometimes people don’t know how to accept such a thing. So, we tell ourselves that they are too young to understand us or that they simply like someone else. Maybe, it was just one of those things: one of those things that happen and that nobody can change.

They don’t communicate with the intellect. They communicate with the heart. They want to get to know them. They want to understand them.
They want to understand their fears, their hopes and their desires. And that’s all about emotions.
So, you cannot expect women to behave like men. You cannot expect them to be successful in relationships because women are different from men in many ways.

It’s like someone was pulling on her heartstrings.

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I saw her eyes close at the very thought of being with me.

I saw her eyes close at the very thought of being with me.

8. They Have a Vision

The truth is that, most men work in jobs they hate, watch football, and then go home to do it all again the next day. If you want to attract high quality women, you need to do something different.

You may have all sorts of good reasons to live, but for the sake of this discussion, lets assume you are living for the sole purpose of helping others.

9. They Don’t Hide Their Opinion 

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I do this a lot…

Men aren’t able to resist the temptation of having sex with every woman they see. This is extremely dangerous.

If you don’t have courage to talk about women, then men won’t respect you.

10. They Don’t Settle for Less

I have a beautiful girlfriend and I love her with all my heart. I have no doubt that this one is the one for me. Why did I say no to the others? Well, the others were not flawless for me.

I think one of the reasons why men are so eager to find someone as soon as possible is that they fear that finding the right one will be difficult. So, they don’t want to waste their time.

Just because you don’t want to be lonely, doesn’t mean you won’t meet a woman who could be the right fit for you. Some men settle down with women, just because they don’t want to be lonely. They don’t care whether or not she is girlfriend material. This is a huge mistake and one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high.

11. They Have a Life

If I know Rob, then he is probably an extremely nice guy. I don’t know Rob personally, but I wouldn’t doubt he’s a good guy.

Rob is a real man. He works hard and always has time for us. When I call him, he picks up the phone while talking with some other woman on the other end. He doesn’t like to play sports – he does it only if he has no other alternative. He only goes on one of our vacations – a week-long stay in the country.

As a single man, you can’t have your phone on and the door opened the same time as you. If you do, the person on the other end of the line will either find you sitting at their door in your underwear or in bed with your girlfriend, and will think it was you. So your phone is on when the door is opened.

I like the taste of alcohol and women; I don’t like the price.

So do men, actually, but that’s what I was told.

12. They Take Women on Adventures

I’ve never met a man who was an idealist, but I’ve met tons of men who complain that women are too cynical.

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When you take them on adventures, their success with you grows.

The dating world is changing: it’s more diverse now than it was when you were younger. And a lot of couples are more open to unconventional meeting spots. Some women (myself included!) like to get coffee and talk at work, and some like to go for coffee at a different time of day, at a bar or a hotel lounge.

13. They Have Female Friends

Men are actually worse at friendship then women, they feel the need to prove they aren’t the friend they really want to be.

As it is great to have male friends. Male friends can introduce you to tens of thousands of their single friends. Your male friend can be your personal PR manager.

14. They Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway

That’s normal. All of us experience this fear when we are about to do something. If I were you, I would do everything you can to avoid mess ups.

When you are nervous, it affects your breathing. So, you need to make sure that you are breathing deeply and slowly, and make sure that you are not holding your breath.

Do you know why you should get a haircut? Because if you don’t, the ladies of the world will not get the benefit of your fantastic looks. Your looks are not a guarantee that you will get girls. They have to be attracted to you first and then think that you’re attractive. That’s not all. Even if she likes you, she may not want to sleep with you. That’s the way the world is.

Don’t let fear stop you. If you overcome fear, your life will be an uphill battle, but a battle you’ll always win.

15. They Have a Never Giving Up Attitude

What I do would be, to never think, to never even have the thought, “Why haven’t I met more men?” because you have to be open to every man.

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I know you probably would continue and not be discouraged if I told you that the next girl you approach will give you her number, go on a date with you and become your girlfriend.

And it is possible, but only if you do not give up.

In the end you have to give up. You still need to be patient, persistent and be kind.


The way you think affects the way you act; and if you are not happy with your results with women, you must change your thoughts and your behavior. Doing the same thing over and over again will not change anything about your results with women.

It is critical to make a decision not to give up until you have success with women, because you have to know the difference between a man who has success with women and a man who doesn’t.

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